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Code of Conduct

This group is a safe, fun, and respectful space for singles to connect both in-person and online. Whether you’re attending meetups or chatting on the forum, we ask all members to follow this Code of Conduct to help foster a positive community.

💬 Respect and Inclusion

  • Treat everyone with kindness – No bullying, harassment, name-calling, or personal attacks. Negative or hurtful words to other members or admin posted publicly will be immediately removed and warnings given or removal or member.

  • Respect boundaries – If someone says no, respect that without argument or pressure.
    No discrimination – Racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, or otherwise discriminatory behavior will not be tolerated.

  • Be inclusive – Everyone is welcome regardless of relationship history, age (22+), background, or orientation.

🕊️ Consent and Communication

  • Always get clear consent – This applies to physical touch at events, sharing personal stories, or engaging in flirtation.

  • No pressure to date – Friendship, fun, and conversation are just as important as romantic potential.

  • Respect privacy – Don’t share others’ personal information or photos without permission.

🌐 Online Forum Behavior

  • Stay on topic – Keep posts relevant to the group’s purpose.

  • No explicit content – Keep it PG in public threads and PG-13 in specifically designated NSFW chats.

  • Report issues – If you see something concerning, notify a moderator ( NOT Queenie) rather than confronting the member yourself.

📅 In-Person Event Etiquette

  • Respect for Staff and Fellow Patrons: Treat all staff members and fellow patrons with courtesy, respect, and patience. Kindness goes a long way in creating a positive atmosphere 

  • Table and Space Management: Respect the establishment’s seating policies and be mindful of your table’s occupancy time, especially during peak hours. It's generally expected that patrons will order something if they occupy a table. If a group or an individual is taking up space and only ordering water, it can be seen as taking advantage of the establishment. Everyone has different budgets and/or allowances for social expenses, a wide variety of free events are offered in order to help balance any expenses while still getting ample exposure to our community. 

  • Payment and Tipping: Settle bills promptly and considerate of the server’s efforts. Tipping appropriately is customary and appreciated for good service. 

  • Noise Level: Keep noise levels appropriate for the setting. Avoid loud conversations or disruptive behavior that may disturb others. 

  • Be present – Don’t dominate conversations or interrupt others. Be mindful of and welcoming to newcomers.

  • Alcohol Consumption: Drink responsibly and in accordance with local laws and the establishment’s policies regarding alcohol service.

  • Dress appropriately and engage in regular grooming habits – Dress for the activity and location, but always with respect for the group. Maintaining cleanliness and regular grooming of body, clothing, hair and teeth.

  • Safety Awareness & Reporting Concerns: Be mindful of your surroundings and safety, especially when meeting someone for the first time. Meet in public places and inform a friend or family member about your plans. Report any concerns or incidents to the group moderators or guardians promptly. We are here to support and ensure as safe an environment as possible. Please understand, Queenie Connects cannot and will not be responsible, held accountable, or closely police the actions of any and all individuals. Queenie Connects, with very limited public information, does their best to vet incoming members as a fit to the purpose of the group, however, Queenie Connects does not perform background checks, inquire in any recent and/or past personal, criminal, or similar history. As aforementioned, it is highly suggested as well as recommended to perform your own research and safeguards when meeting someone one-on-one for the first time. 

  • Communication: Communicate openly and honestly. Misleading or deceptive behavior is not acceptable. 

  • Feedback and Concerns: Provide constructive feedback directly to the staff or management if you have concerns or complaints. Avoid confrontational behavior or public displays of dissatisfaction. 

  • Constructive Interaction: Engage in constructive interactions. Disagreements should be handled respectfully, focusing on guideline #1 and understanding, never escalated.

🚫 Prohibited Behavior

  • Harassment or stalking

  • Hate speech or slurs

  • Repeated unwanted contact

  • Promoting outside businesses or services without approval

  • Driving after drinking

  • Showing up uninvited to private meetups

✅ Enforcement

  • Moderators and organizers reserve the right to issue warnings, mute members online, or remove anyone from the group (temporarily or permanently) who violates this Code, without warning.

  • In serious cases, authorities may be contacted.

❤️ Final Note

We’re here to laugh, connect, and support each other in a healthy, respectful environment. Thanks for being part of the community and helping keep it safe and fun for all!

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